Category Archives: Addiction

Love Addiction Survey

Take Anonymous Love Addiction Survey and Weigh In Find out if codependency is a problem in your life and relationships. For more information about counseling with Randi Fine, please visit

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Narcissists Abuse Intimate Partners

Image Source The Spouse / Mate / Partner of the Narcissist Written By Dr. Sam Vaknin, Author of Malignant Self-Love and Relationships with Abusive Narcissists See column on the right side of this website labeled Narcissistic Personality Disorder  for a … Continue reading

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How Colors Reflect Your Personality

Image Source Colors as a Reflection of Human Nature By Waking Times Colors play a strong role in many indigenous cultures, each of the human chakra energy centers vibrates and responds to a different color, and many people with near-death experiences … Continue reading

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Adult Children of Alcoholic Parents

Photo image by Nina Matthews  Graphic by Randi Fine Adult Children of Alcoholics A counseling client of mine has recently discovered after 40 years of unhappy, painful marriage that her husband is an Adult Child of Alcoholics (ACA). Countless trips to therapists and … Continue reading

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Some Situations Call For Tough Love

 Image by Klearchos Kapoutsis Tough Love Exerpt from my October 9, 2013 show on A Fine Time for Healing, Some Situations Call For Tough Love When used properly tough love is rooted in deep devotion and unconditional love, though it usually … Continue reading

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Recognizing Codependent Behavior

Image Source Vicky/We Heart It  Graphics by Randi Fine Are You Codependent? Recognizing and Healing From Codependency Written by Randi G. Fine I am a fully recovered codependent of over twenty-five years. While in the midst of my disorder, life was … Continue reading

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Dysfunctional Romantic Relationships

 Codependent Relationships Dynamics Dysfunctional Definition of Love       Written by Robert Burney, author of Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls As long as we believe that someone else has the power to make us happy then we are setting ourselves up to … Continue reading

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Relationship Codependency Exposed

Excerpted from the April 21, 2011 A Fine Time for Healing show, Relationship Codependency: The Curable Addiction, hosted by Randi G. Fine Roughly 100 million Americans suffer the effects of codependency today. Relationship codependency is often referred to as the … Continue reading

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Codependent Tendencies Include Low Self Esteem

Photo by Madalyn Christine Your healing begins once you recognize and acknowledge your codependent tendencies. This list from the website Night Vision for Women clearly illuminates the pain and self esteem issues of those tendencies: My good feelings about who I am stem from being liked … Continue reading

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Codependency Quote

Codependency poem written by poet, Eileen Marie

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